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Maybe instead of sending him a letter, if we have his address, someone nearby should go see if he's okay?
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Another perspective is leave it. If people have written real letters to him already letting him know they/we are thinking of him then maybe it's better to leave it with him?

Just a thought, and if it comes across as uncaring that's not the intention.
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I agree with ruffers
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yep, give the man his space 8)
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ruffers wrote:Another perspective is leave it. If people have written real letters to him already letting him know they/we are thinking of him then maybe it's better to leave it with him?

Just a thought, and if it comes across as uncaring that's not the intention.
I thought about it a lot too. In fact every time I write here about how I'm worried by the silence, I feel kind of guilty, I think it may seem nosy and annoying and out of place and so on. But then again I'm not so sure , judging by the opennes of Paul's messages before the silence... Geez, I don't know. You could be right, I'll leave it like that. I just hope we'll hear some good news soon.
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I don't think anyone here is questioning your concern _emma_, and I for one know how much the well wishes and cards helped me during my recent illness. I certainly think we should keep him in our thoughts and hope he returns soon, both fit and well.
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if he knows people are trying to get in touch and for whatever reason chooses not to,then yeah-give him space.the last thing i'ld want is someone turning up on the doorstep when i was dealing with something serious.
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a belated bon anniversaire! :D
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My best wishes, wherever you are! 8)
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