Only if you make a habit of shagging hookers in the Dam.CorpPunk wrote:Are you calling me fat?!Planet Dave wrote: And the thought that you're going where the fat yank has been 5 minutes back is the killer.
If so, then yep.
Only if you make a habit of shagging hookers in the Dam.CorpPunk wrote:Are you calling me fat?!Planet Dave wrote: And the thought that you're going where the fat yank has been 5 minutes back is the killer.
B, the important part for the lust of the customer is the money-thing. He pays for her lust, so to say. That puts him in a (rather momentarily) position of power over that woman which is a turn on for many men. Furthermore, by paying, she has to willingly submit to his desires, which a "real" woman he could pick up in a bar probably would not do first hand.boudicca wrote:It's not the fact that there's no love that bothers me... but there's no lust either. The guy is essentially shagging something that doesn't want him any more than a vacuum cleaner would, so why he doesn't just save his money and stick to a combination of dodgy mags and his Dyson is beyond me.MadameButterfly wrote:sex without love is a scary and ugly sport...
Sure, something has power over her... but is it really him? It's his wallet, and her need for what's in it in order to fund her drug addiction, most likely. Obviously some deluded fellas can convince themselves for a few minutes that it really is them who has the control, not the Mean Green.canon docre wrote:B, the important part for the lust of the customer is the money-thing. He pays for her lust, so to say. That puts him in a (rather momentarily) position of power over that woman which is a turn on for many men. Furthermore, by paying, she has to willingly submit to his desires, which a "real" woman he could pick up in a bar probably would not do first hand.
I understand all that, the appeal of the lack of emotional ties and so on (don't think it's an exclusively male thing even)... just think it must - or ought to - puncture the ego to know that the woman basically does not find you attractive, and if you didn't have to bribe her, she wouldn't.eastmidswhizzkid wrote:all of the above points (re. prostitution) are valid in many instances i'm sure.but sometimes it is as simple as (from the male view-point) paying for a service;albeit an intimate one (by "intimate" i don't mean in an emotional sense).
I'm not really one to get all teary-eyed about women's exploitation in the sex industry - just angry, disappointed and disgusted, as much at them as the men who "use" them. As I see it, provided they haven't been forced into it, they make their own choices and to paint them as "victims" does all women a disservice.eastmidswhizzkid wrote:when it's legalised,licenced and health regulated, prostitution is no less than a service industry -it just takes a certain mind-set. i've (socially!) met a couple of non-drug addicted ,highly paid call girls who are proud of exploiting men's weakness for sex.
And boudicca was considering staying at a hotel near one of those featured in Leeds. So I'm told...Brideoffrankenstein wrote:I watched a programme about the brothel industry in England on TV a while ago and they had a bloke on there who had taken it upon himself to design a website which contained reviews of every brothel in the country as he worked around them. He was totally bloody sleazy and disgusting, and getting the girls to pose for photos for his website - god he couldn't believe his luck. Gross!
eh eh eh eh eh?Francis wrote:And boudicca was considering staying at a hotel near one of those featured in Leeds. So I'm told...Brideoffrankenstein wrote:I watched a programme about the brothel industry in England on TV a while ago and they had a bloke on there who had taken it upon himself to design a website which contained reviews of every brothel in the country as he worked around them. He was totally bloody sleazy and disgusting, and getting the girls to pose for photos for his website - god he couldn't believe his luck. Gross!
Dear lord! Someone will have to explain himself now!markfiend wrote:The Ibis in Leeds is on the former site of a brothel. (Not that they've re-used the building, the brothel was knocked down to build the Ibis.)
I wouldn't be smiling then, would I?scotty wrote:A red light in an upstair window of the "Ibis"
Ah,that's why you didn't get him then!boudicca wrote:
(Yes, that thing on my face in the avatar does pass for a smile... )
You mean near Maxi's in between Graham's Kitchens and Napoleon's Casino? I thought it was called Mr Brown's.markfiend wrote:Black and white building, aye that's the one. IIRC the name began with a W?
Mrs RicheyJames wrote:" If I tilt my head slightly further back. You can see that I haven't quite blown my nose properly".
ah! nasal sex, cheap in the damboudicca wrote:Mrs RicheyJames wrote:" If I tilt my head slightly further back. You can see that I haven't quite blown my nose properly".
Bit more accurate there!
Just when I thought we were moving away from that topic...paint it black wrote:ah! nasal sex, cheap in the damboudicca wrote:Mrs RicheyJames wrote:" If I tilt my head slightly further back. You can see that I haven't quite blown my nose properly".
Bit more accurate there!