Seeks to share a bond of understanding intimacy in an esthetic atmosphere of peace and tenderness...
True, but I don't know exactly what the *esthetic* thing's about...
The existing situation is disagreeable.
Oh yeah.
Feels lonely and uncertain as she has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file.
True except for the "uncertain" bit. And I think I have allied myself quite nicely here on HL
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This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to her self-sufficiency because of the restraint she normally imposes on herself. Since she wants to demonstrate the unique quality of her own character, she tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal her fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize her behavior with contempt.
Very much on the button, apart from the "inadequacy" bit.
Moi?
However, beneath this assumption of indifference she really longs for the approval and esteem of others.
Hmmm, I think "indifferent" would be at the very bottom of the list of words anyone who knows me well could use to describe me
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And I certainly don't long for approval, that would make me wonder what I was doing wrong. I like those I hold in high esteem to hold me as high as I hold myself
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Has high emotional demands and is willing to involve herself in a close relationship,
All too true (but high standards rather than high demands)...
but not with any great depth of feeling.
Now THAT'S the biggest crock of sh!t I've ever heard
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Unhappy at the resistance she feels whenever she tries to assert herself. Indignant and resentful because of these setbacks,
Oh yes oh yes oh yes, hit the nail there, but..
but gives way apathetically and makes whatever adjustments are necessary so that she can have peace and quiet.
... once again, utter bollocks.
Demands that ideas and emotions shall merge and blend perfectly.
WTF?
Refuses to make any concessions or to accept any compromises.
Meh, I'd like to think I'm an adult about that.
The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and make a name for herself--has become imperative. She reacts by insisting on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or minor role.
Hmm, true up to a point - I'd like to do interesting things with my life and do them well - but I don't give enough of a toss what other people think of me to care about whether I'm the centre of attention or not.
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. Her refusal to admit this leads to her adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude.
Maybe there's something in that...
All in all Z, I can't tell if that little quiz is a load of crap or not!