BDSM vies with Heartland for normal & well-adjusted peop

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From today's Guardian
Sir Guy wrote: The people...who are into BDSM are very normal, well-adjusted people. They are better company than you'd find at a stamp-collecting society or line-dancing group. They are more articulate, aware and caring than most people I have met. People have found it time and again - if someone goes through a divorce or bankruptcy or difficult time, it's their friends from 'the [BDSM] scene' who rally round.
Doesn't that sound like us? :lol:
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If this is you working up to arriving at the next do with a cat-o-nine tails, a leather mask, and a smile, well...

I'm leaving it to madame :P

On the similarities, one is a group of seemingly normal individuals who clothe themselves in bizarre outfits behind closed doors in dark places, and torture themselves over a concept the rest of the human race considers incomprehensible and even dangerous...

And the others are BDSMers!

I'll leave you to work out the references. :wink:

Some crossover is, unfortunately, unavoidable. :P
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timsinister wrote:a concept the rest of the human race considers incomprehensible and even dangerous...
Sounds like the 4th album... :lol:
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timsinister wrote:If this is you working up to arriving at the next do with a cat-o-nine tails, a leather mask, and a smile, well...

I'm leaving it to madame :P
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I drink my coffee in a little shop in Covent Garden called CCK. A nicer enviroment to spend an afternoon in discussion with both friends and strangers I couldn't imagine.

Coffee Cake & Kink is the full name of the place. As well as a coffee and cake shop it acts as a fetish gallery, a display and retail area for erotic artists and has a vertible libary of books alongside a small range of toys etc.

Despite this it's full of normal, well adjusted people doing what coffee shop patrons do best: Nattering :)

In fact, I recomend it to any London based HL'ers.
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Maisey wrote:
In fact, I recomend it to any London based HL'ers.
Where exactly is it, Maisey? :innocent:
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Maisey wrote:I drink my coffee in a little shop in Covent Garden called CCK. A nicer enviroment to spend an afternoon in discussion with both friends and strangers I couldn't imagine.

Coffee Cake & Kink is the full name of the place. As well as a coffee and cake shop it acts as a fetish gallery, a display and retail area for erotic artists and has a vertible libary of books alongside a small range of toys etc.

Despite this it's full of normal, well adjusted people doing what coffee shop patrons do best: Nattering :)

In fact, I recomend it to any London based HL'ers.
Excellent!

Somewhere else to take my cousins when they visit :twisted:

Where about in Covent Garden is the coffee shop Maisey?
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Maisey wrote:I drink my coffee in a little shop in Covent Garden called CCK. A nicer enviroment to spend an afternoon in discussion with both friends and strangers I couldn't imagine.

Coffee Cake & Kink is the full name of the place. As well as a coffee and cake shop it acts as a fetish gallery, a display and retail area for erotic artists and has a vertible libary of books alongside a small range of toys etc.

Despite this it's full of normal, well adjusted people doing what coffee shop patrons do best: Nattering :)

In fact, I recomend it to any London based HL'ers.
Wish I'd known... :P ;) :innocent:
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timsinister wrote:Some crossdressing is, unfortunately, unavoidable. :P
Now, what's unfortunate about that? :lol: :P



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MadameButterfly wrote:
timsinister wrote:If this is you working up to arriving at the next do with a cat-o-nine tails, a leather mask, and a smile, well...

I'm leaving it to madame :P
:eek: :eek: good heavens timmy! :eek: :eek:

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@ Madame - hows it going kiddo? - You well? - its been a while :-)
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SINsister wrote:
timsinister wrote:Some crossdressing is, unfortunately, unavoidable. :P
Now, what's unfortunate about that? :lol: :P

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Saw what you did there! :wink: I dunno, think I'd probably stretch the first pair of suspenders I tried, and this topic is going in an odd direction... :eek:
evilbastard wrote:Sounds like the 4th album...
See that bit where I said 'torture themselves'...?

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Andy TG wrote:
MadameButterfly wrote:
timsinister wrote:If this is you working up to arriving at the next do with a cat-o-nine tails, a leather mask, and a smile, well...

I'm leaving it to madame :P
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@ Madame - hows it going kiddo? - You well? - its been a while :-)
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Maisey wrote:Directions :wink:
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i don't believe in normal well-adjusted people. In my experience, normal people are anything but well-adjusted.

Some of the most "articulate" people i know are the biggest assholes around, as are socalled "caring" people. And some of the nciest people i know are taciturn and difficult to approach and walk around with a look of disdain on their faces.

My point is, those kinds of things as articulate or caring mean abso-fn-lutely nada. And it's idiotic to talk about those kinds of things as indicative of being well-adjusted or nice.

Just like i only ever hear of idiots praising democracy.
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You're rather articulate yourself Dei. :wink:
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MadameButterfly wrote:
Andy TG wrote:
MadameButterfly wrote: :eek: :eek: good heavens timmy! :eek: :eek:

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@ Madame - hows it going kiddo? - You well? - its been a while :-)
Hello Andy! :kiss: These days it's good to be called kiddo! :D 8)
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@ Madame :-) - I am fine thanky

As for BDSM people - some I know are really "nice" and some are complete "arseholes" - oddly enough it is mainly the women who are the aresholes.
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itnAklipse wrote:i don't believe in normal well-adjusted people. In my experience, normal people are anything but well-adjusted.

Some of the most "articulate" people i know are the biggest assholes around, as are socalled "caring" people. And some of the nciest people i know are taciturn and difficult to approach and walk around with a look of disdain on their faces.

My point is, those kinds of things as articulate or caring mean abso-fn-lutely nada. And it's idiotic to talk about those kinds of things as indicative of being well-adjusted or nice.

Just like i only ever hear of idiots praising democracy.
Still posting here I see. Hypocrite.
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