Heartland

Black Planet wrote:

Sexygoth wrote:
My reply was prompted by what Mr. Chris said, about ppl going off to uni and coming home snobby some how. That really bothered me.

I can see why you would be bothered by that, BP, but it wasn't actually what I said . Some people do go off to Uni and become snobby, but in my opinion just as destructive is the (wrong, as I pointed out ) perception that they would feel this way. This is just what I've experienced. I don't think I'm better than anyone else because I went to uni. But a number of my old friends back home (and my dad, to return to my not particularly interesting story) seemed to assume that I WOULD, and I found that quite a difficult assumption to remove . And if it isn't removed, it can be destructive to a friendship .

That's all I was trying to say