Heartland

Well I've been fine so far in similar situation by following the chinese path:

Sit down by the river, stay calm and wait until the carcasses of your enemies float passed.

They all will, sooner or later. And it costs you so much less energy.

Eva wrote:Well I've been fine so far in similar situation by following the chinese path:

Sit down by the river, stay calm and wait until the carcasses of your enemies float passed.

They all will, sooner or later. And it costs you so much less energy.

But for that one has to have levels of patience that I'm afraid I do not possess.

Chairman Bux wrote:But for that one has to have levels of patience that I'm afraid I do not possess.

Patience. 15 years. That's patience.

hallucienate wrote:

Chairman Bux wrote:But for that one has to have levels of patience that I'm afraid I do not possess.

Patience. 15 years. That's patience.

Touché.

Chairman Bux wrote: But for that one has to have levels of patience that I'm afraid I do not possess.

You don't know my temper! For a long time I didn't even know how to spell the word "patience" let alone to behave accordingly.

But seeing things happen according to your will without you actually moving a finger is a very rewarding experience that teaches you patience for good!

Eva wrote:

Chairman Bux wrote: But for that one has to have levels of patience that I'm afraid I do not possess.

You don't know my temper! For a long time I didn't even know how to spell the word "patience" let alone to behave accordingly.

But seeing things happen according to your will without you actually moving a finger is a very rewarding experience that teaches you patience for good!

Are you Carrie?

canon docre wrote:
Are you Carrie?

No, but who's Carrie?

*hugs* i can't help with anything except good wishes.. hope that will do.. xxx

can't imagine what i'ld do to anyone who did that to me.however i can imagine there are plenty of people who i've pist off enough...my heart goes out to you anyway,good luck with re-collecting it all.

Are there any power tools in your house?

Now's the time to use 'em.

(And no, I don't mean you should put up shelves...)

_emma_ wrote:

canon docre wrote:if a relationship came down to that level, there is no way up again. Any further revenge is just useless, though, understandable. Whatever good times you both may have had the past 15 years, you have to put an end to it. Please, Emma, do yourself that favour!

You sound like you know very well.

No, quite the contrary, I have it very easy to wave goodbye to unsatisfactory relationships.
The last words adressed to my ex were an undisputable "f**k off and die"

Hope, you'll find the strength to do so as well.

@ Obviousman:
It works.
Several more hours and I'll have the photos back.

Poor you... I hope you will manage to rebuild your collection. And - has he got something precoius you could destroy? Revenge is sweet. Sometimes Take care...

_emma_ wrote:@ Obviousman:
It works.
Several more hours and I'll have the photos back.

Allright... Glad it does

Now make sure to have a backup of it all

canon docre wrote:if a relationship came down to that level, there is no way up again. Any further revenge is just useless, though, understandable. Whatever good times you both may have had the past 15 years, you have to put an end to it. Please, Emma, do yourself that favour!

I would have thought giving up your infatuation with Eldritch would be of more benefit to your long term happiness. But hey, who am I to give anyone advice on quitting their addictions.

boudicca wrote:Are there any power tools in your house?

Now's the time to use 'em.

(And no, I don't mean you should put up shelves...)

My kind of girl....

Chairman Bux wrote:

boudicca wrote:Are there any power tools in your house?

Now's the time to use 'em.

(And no, I don't mean you should put up shelves...)

My kind of girl....

WOO-HOO! I'm on-side!

boudicca wrote:

Chairman Bux wrote:

boudicca wrote:Are there any power tools in your house?

Now's the time to use 'em.

(And no, I don't mean you should put up shelves...)

My kind of girl....

WOO-HOO! I'm on-side!

He can check your PM's you know.

Francis wrote:
He can check your PM's you know.

Francis wrote:

canon docre wrote:if a relationship came down to that level, there is no way up again. Any further revenge is just useless, though, understandable. Whatever good times you both may have had the past 15 years, you have to put an end to it. Please, Emma, do yourself that favour!

I would have thought giving up your infatuation with Eldritch would be of more benefit to your long term happiness. But hey, who am I to give anyone advice on quitting their addictions.

Dear lord, we actually agree with one another. How did that happen? And should I change my mind?

d00mw0lf wrote:

Francis wrote:
He can check your PM's you know.

I don't want to know what you're thinking, D00my!

I hope he'll burn in hell. That's all I can say right now.

Take care Emma, and never date/see him again. Ok?

_emma_ wrote:

canon docre wrote:if a relationship came down to that level, there is no way up again. Any further revenge is just useless, though, understandable. Whatever good times you both may have had the past 15 years, you have to put an end to it. Please, Emma, do yourself that favour!

You sound like you know very well.

Canon is so right it hurts.
And more on email when I stop being an awful kind of friend like I've been lately.

I'm aware you're right, DS, canon docre and rian.
But I'm also aware Francis is more than right. Yet, there's nothing I can do. Perhaps you understand.
Today, tommorrow and this week's most imminent challenge is to try not to go insane. That'll do, for now.