Heartland

Maybe instead of sending him a letter, if we have his address, someone nearby should go see if he's okay?

Another perspective is leave it. If people have written real letters to him already letting him know they/we are thinking of him then maybe it's better to leave it with him?

Just a thought, and if it comes across as uncaring that's not the intention.

I agree with ruffers

yep, give the man his space

ruffers wrote:Another perspective is leave it. If people have written real letters to him already letting him know they/we are thinking of him then maybe it's better to leave it with him?

Just a thought, and if it comes across as uncaring that's not the intention.

I thought about it a lot too. In fact every time I write here about how I'm worried by the silence, I feel kind of guilty, I think it may seem nosy and annoying and out of place and so on. But then again I'm not so sure , judging by the opennes of Paul's messages before the silence... Geez, I don't know. You could be right, I'll leave it like that. I just hope we'll hear some good news soon.

I don't think anyone here is questioning your concern _emma_, and I for one know how much the well wishes and cards helped me during my recent illness. I certainly think we should keep him in our thoughts and hope he returns soon, both fit and well.

if he knows people are trying to get in touch and for whatever reason chooses not to,then yeah-give him space.the last thing i'ld want is someone turning up on the doorstep when i was dealing with something serious.

a belated bon anniversaire!

My best wishes, wherever you are!