Heartland

when you go to bed to sleep but your mind then wakes up and starts twirling around worst case scenarios....like wtaf?
why now when you want to just slip into dreamland but your mind is in such a different space. i seriously don't need this right now.

That's called anxiety Debs and if it's disturbing your sleep on a regular basis, see a doctor

markfiend wrote: ↑23 Jun 2022, 10:06 That's called anxiety Debs and if it's disturbing your sleep on a regular basis, see a doctor

thank you doctor Fiendy it most definitely was but i know what caused it.
have other tools to deal with it which didn't involve having to see a doctor

Oh well, eventually I got my car through the MOT ... I only say cat ... ...

One of my cats (Polly) died this morning from heart failure


She was the friendliest little monster in the world. Five years old. I am broken

Oh jeez so sorry to hear that Steve.

Damn, i know that feeling too well.
It's too soon for a cat.

Hugs to you Steve, losing our little furry family members is always so hard but especially so when they're still young.

RIP beautiful Polly xx

Oh my ... ... I still remember when you posted the first pictures of the two sweeties when you got them ...

That is so sad to hear ... loads of hugs to you, Steve ... ...

I'm so sorry to hear that. I was pretty torn up when throat cancer got mine a few years back.; you've got my sympathies At least she had a good, happy life with you.

Also, she is absolutely adorable. What a beautiful cat.

So sorry!
And only five years old! She was such a beauty. It’s hard to recover from that. I wish you all the best.
It takes time. Have been through that too.

You're all very kind. Thank you for all the messages.
Now Iggy's starting to wonder where her sister is. She's looking around & sleeping in Polly's usual places.

Pista wrote: ↑28 Aug 2022, 19:00 You're all very kind. Thank you for all the messages.
Now Iggy's starting to wonder where her sister is. She's looking around & sleeping in Polly's usual places.

Poor girl will be heartbroken; when Barsh died, our other cat spent a year yowling in the night looking for her. We’d find her in the living room, stuffed lobster in her mouth, at 3:00 or 4:00 AM, letting loose the most melancholy sound I’ve ever heard an animal make.

sorry to hear Steve. that's heartbreaking I know:(

Pista wrote: ↑28 Aug 2022, 19:00 You're all very kind. Thank you for all the messages.
Now Iggy's starting to wonder where her sister is. She's looking around & sleeping in Polly's usual places.

We got two like-siblings they were extremely attachted to themselves, when one died the griev was very obvious, and because of his condition and age he went after her dearest friend one and a half moth later.

Obvoisly wish that your cat will find peace in her nerurotic mind.

Pissed off by the fact that I've had so much to deal with that I've had to neglect this place. Love you all and I'm back.

CPOB the fact that the Irish government sent my passport card to some random person in Massachussetts

At least they got the birth certificate and other supporting documents to the right address.

another dead friend gone far too young. poor cunt was 43. sucks

eastmidswhizzkid wrote: ↑03 Oct 2022, 12:10 another dead friend gone far too young. poor cunt was 43. sucks

Sorry to hear that Lee
*hugs*

Condolences Lee
It sucks losing friends that are that age

Sad news ... so young... ... hope his life up to now was somewhat bearable at least ... ... hugs to you, Lee ... ...

Thank you everybody. No-one seems to know how he died yet but we think suicide is looking most likely.

Sorry for the loss of your friend Lee

So treasures,

an unidentified but chewing monster is apparently raiding my belly and it will take some time and effort to get rid of it
including some 6-plus-hour surgery tomorrow to begin with ... *sigh ...

Keep your fingers crossed and wish me luck in the next few days ... or don't, if you prefer so.

Gotta sleep a bit now. See you later.

Best wishes for your quick return to health Sabine.