Heartland

Pista wrote: ↑21 Apr 2023, 18:11 Moving into a new house.
This week has consisted of installing doors so the cat can't get to the attic & we can keep the heat from escaping up there too i a concerted push to be in finally.
I am so happy. Moreover, it's a much shorter walk to the local boozer

Pista wrote: ↑21 Apr 2023, 18:11 Moving into a new house.
This week has consisted of installing doors so the cat can't get to the attic & we can keep the heat from escaping up there too i a concerted push to be in finally.
I am so happy. Moreover, it's a much shorter walk to the local boozer

MadameButterfly wrote: ↑21 Apr 2023, 18:52 congratulations Steve! know how much work you put into your new home doing so much work yourself. may you be very happy in your new place!

sziamiau wrote: ↑22 Apr 2023, 00:11 fabulous! are you staying in the same area? I've been looking to buy in Fured. I really like one but the guy wants cash plus signing contract immediately and I'm in the US now working like a maniac so can't really just do it in two seconds. ugh

Pista wrote: ↑21 Apr 2023, 18:11 Moving into a new house.
This week has consisted of installing doors so the cat can't get to the attic & we can keep the heat from escaping up there too i a concerted push to be in finally.
I am so happy. Moreover, it's a much shorter walk to the local boozer

Pista wrote: ↑22 Apr 2023, 09:05

sziamiau wrote: ↑22 Apr 2023, 00:11 fabulous! are you staying in the same area? I've been looking to buy in Fured. I really like one but the guy wants cash plus signing contract immediately and I'm in the US now working like a maniac so can't really just do it in two seconds. ugh

Yep. The house it literally 5 minutes walk from the previous flat. I think you can even see the old flat from one of the attic windows.
Be careful buying in Fured. A lot of properties are snapped up by folks from Budapest looking to either flip for a massive profit after a lick of paint or to rent it out as a nyaraló.
What are you looking for? A flat or a house?

MadameButterfly wrote: ↑17 May 2023, 19:14 ^^^well after me posting that post that happy feeling dissolved like water on sugar.

our son came home to so much stress that he landed up having a psychosis. a light one they say but if this is a light one don't want to know what a full one entails. thought he was being tracked by the police and FBI or whatever thinking his phone was being traced and all sorts. talking half dutch half english half afrikaans in his hectic way of talking.
he wasn't sleeping and posting crazy s**t on Instagram that i don't have so was informed by my sister and his friends. after waking up one morning with nail polish on my wall with what looked like SOS on it i phoned the doctor to make an appointment. he was sleeping at the time of appointment so we went instead and explained the situation. doctor needed to actually see him so organised for them to come to us. the crisis team arrived with 3 professionals and we all had a good chat with them asking him questions and when what he said was not true we gave our comments to what had actually happened that we were witness to. then the psychosis was named and he got meds to help him sleep that certain brain prickles are switched off.

with me going back to work i get told that no one knew where he was but he had told me he was going to see a friend but she was at work. so there was slight panic not knowing where he was. my daughter had seen a post he had done through that friend's LinkedIn profile but had lied about who he was with. so she goes to where he said he was via that post with a friend and find him. we go and meet them and he has taken his meds *meant for night sleeping with a cocktail but has a haircut appointment that i have to go with to in case he passes out in the chair. anyway we get home and he then goes into my handbag whilst i went to the loo and come back to find him with my bank card in his hand. i go to grab it back and he gives me a slight shove and my husband comes and starts shouting at him which is really unusual unless my husband is angry which he was. son goes upstairs and throws an apple downstairs and i say phone the police which we do. but because of his psychosis and no immediate danger there is nothing they can do. so we phone the crisis team and actually we can't keep him locked up at home, legally you can't he is an adult. we must give him space and he must take his meds.
okay fine. by now i am letting it go. the stess for me is not worth it. i am feeling it from my husband, my daughter and obviously my son and if i don't let it go it will kill me.

seemed to work a bit of normal resumed. then the meds were "lost" we had left them on the table and he said he didn't know where they were. saw the crisis team again and he was going to appointments like the arbo from work. work the cause of this all when a 23 year old is in a burnout does everything that he is told to do and then when one appointment is planned when he is on holiday on the other side of the world *which was a known fact and because he doesn't show up they freeze his last salary??

explain this to me please? no wonder he has gone looney tunes!

i thought he was getting better to being himself but we are far from it.

thank the stars i am off work for 5 days now.
i am now going to get numb.. the vino is calling my name

Incoming! wrote: ↑31 May 2023, 18:57 @iesus

I started revisiting TSOM from a depressed place last year. Reminiscing of life etc. No regrets. Just the little grey cloud following me around. Quite significant TSOM tour the US the first time in 15 years. So the crying is what it is. Maybe I need better meds. lol

Pista wrote: ↑31 May 2023, 19:55 You need to put YCBTO on a loop
That'll cheer anyone up pretty swiftly