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women and pornography

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:12
by emilystrange
there has been a fairly serious discussion about it on the darkness forum.. ie women's attitudes to and enjoyment of it.

your challenge is to be at least as thoughtful and intelligent on this as some of the darklings were.... if you can, lol ;D

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:19
by randdebiel²
women and pornography as in women IN pornography? Image
hope it was sensible enough :innocent:

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:28
by emilystrange
if you're talking about their experiences of the industry, yes.

i think i've lost the battle already...

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:31
by Quiff Boy
each to their own. if some women get a kick out of it then thats their prerogative. likewise with men & porn.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:32
by randdebiel²
emilystrange wrote:
i think i've lost the battle already...
sorry ;D
no ok you can have a serious discussion aboot it but, we men can't say a lot then....
because, well, we're not women :eek:

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:36
by emilystrange
good grief the male darklings managed to comment without being slapped.. well mostly.

some were referring to some research measuring blood flow in genital areas of volunteers while watching porn, and reactions.

I'm not sure that having receptors attached to you would help the ambience, personally... nice mood killer

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:43
by randdebiel²
well, if we're to have a proper discussion about it...what do you want us to talk about specifically?

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:46
by emilystrange
i'm just a facilitator...
i'm actually curious to know what men think women like, or if they think we like porn at all...
then we can agree or put you right in our various ways. if we feel like it...

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:49
by randdebiel²
that's a start... I think women don't like porn in general, but do like sick fantasies..as in: regular movies in whichh completely sexually deviant situations are portrayed (well, in my experience anyway :lol: )

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:54
by rian
I've been with a couple of women who liked to watch porn.

But I've been with more that hated it.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:54
by emilystrange
some seemed to think that women liked the softer, slushier end of porn... that idea got squashed. it might work for some, but you can that from hollywood any day

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:55
by Loki
Surely it's a matter of personal taste for the individual? From experience some do, some don't. As with different methods of swapping bodily fluids and associated shenanigans. Some do, some don't.

Though I'm sure those woman who do enjoy it, see it as a mood enhancer as opposed to the male perspective which tends to be a means to an end.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 12:57
by randdebiel²
emilystrange wrote:some seemed to think that women liked the softer, slushier end of porn... that idea got squashed. it might work for some, but you can that from hollywood any day
I don't really understand for which market it's effective, that soft-porn thingie....
but movies like damage, or the cement garden always seem to do it for my gf...
like I said sick, but regular movies...no porn....

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:05
by emilystrange
the cement garden.. coo. the opening bathroom sequence is... interesting....

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:06
by randdebiel²
emilystrange wrote:the cement garden.. coo. the opening bathroom sequence is... interesting....
many sequences are :innocent:
charlotte :drool:
what I wonder is why would women ever want to PLAY in a porn movie :eek:

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:11
by emilystrange
money?
enjoyment?
nothing better in prospect?
because they want to get into the industry? porn and regular, in front of and behind screen.
exploitation?

lots of reasons why they do it.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:17
by emilystrange
for no apparent reason, i've just remembered that there is an actress that keeps winning 'best anal sex scene' awards.. her mother is very proud.

'Tis not an award i aspire to. i'm sure i'd rather win something else, lol.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:17
by Francis
emilystrange wrote:money?
enjoyment?
nothing better in prospect?
because they want to get into the industry? porn and regular, in front of and behind screen.
exploitation?

lots of reasons why they do it.
And because they're dirty, filthy whores who should be stoned and cast down into the bowels of hell.

The pottery scene in Ghost always makes Pam start crossing her legs.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:17
by randdebiel²
emilystrange wrote:money?
enjoyment?
nothing better in prospect?
because they want to get into the industry? porn and regular, in front of and behind screen.
exploitation?

lots of reasons why they do it.
well yes obviously, but I don't understand it

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:18
by emilystrange
i haven't seen ghost....

did you ask her if you could tell us that? :)

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:18
by randdebiel²
emilystrange wrote:for no apparent reason, i've just remembered that there is an actress that keeps winning 'best anal sex scene' awards.. her mother is very proud.

'Tis not an award i aspire to. i'm sure i'd rather win something else, lol.
lol maybe we should check out what makes it so special :lol:
what's her name then? :eek:

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:20
by Francis
emilystrange wrote:did you ask her if you could tell us that? :)
Of course. I have to ask her for permission to breathe.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:24
by emilystrange
randdebiel² wrote:
emilystrange wrote:for no apparent reason, i've just remembered that there is an actress that keeps winning 'best anal sex scene' awards.. her mother is very proud.

'Tis not an award i aspire to. i'm sure i'd rather win something else, lol.
lol maybe we should check out what makes it so special :lol:
what's her name then? :eek:
i dunno.. it was in one of those sunday paper magazine articles ages ago. she is american.

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:26
by randdebiel²
when we see ghost every previous prospect of sex disappears straight away.....
patrick swayze :puke
demi moore :puke some more:

Posted: 18 Aug 2004, 13:27
by Loki
Francis wrote: And because they're dirty, filthy whores who should be stoned and cast down into the bowels of hell.
Even if they all look like my avatar ..?