markfiend wrote: ↑24 Mar 2023, 12:50
Well that's just it isn't it. I'm pretty sure I have memory of Marr being very dismissive, even sneering at goth in the music papers back in the day. When it comes to it, I'm not particularly sure what Trent Reznor or Adam Ant have to do with goth. None of Killing Joke, Einstürzende, Laibach are really mainstream goth; more industrial IMO.
Is it just a case of John Robb interviewing a bunch of his mates and then desperately seeking a theme to tie it all together?
Oh wow! Seriously Mark with statements like this and knowing you and being the ubber English goth man i have ever met and respect you have got me thinking again...
Indeed the whole goth culture is something one cannot explain because it's a part of your soul and being. When i realised i was goth it was because it was the last "box" you could admits to defining who you were. it's a state of mind that stems from being different from mainstream or normal. where introverts were more into their books than a social life. i remember that time all too well...
for anyone who doesn't know me...well i am from SA growing up in an apartheid country when politics and religion where never discussed cause it would cause s**t that the punk scene knows all about.
our goth scene in the years 1980's were all the UK influences with USA mind you but obviously the UK was more prominent. the clubs we used to party at were all into Sister's, the cure, the cult, Siouxsie, violent femmes, clash, ramones, dead kennedy's , nine inch nails, depeche mode, ....punk, alternative and rock 'n roll the better part where all rolled into one except the way you dressed defined you.
but because we were not mainstream we all combined together...because of the music but because of the state of mind.
looking back at the actual people in that state of mind brings tears to my eyes cause each and everyone in that world had such a sad story of abuse or domestic violence or neglect that those were the reasons that bond us and our heavy partying was to forget it or dance it out in a song.
So Marky thanks for taking me back in time!
If John Robb wrote this book interviewing a bunch of his mates, would you eventually buy the book i eventually write to give you insight into whatever world i take you into? Promise to include you